Nothing kills the mood like unrealistic expectations and constant criticism.
The fact that you are expecting perfection from your woman might be what is killing your sex life.
According to a recent poll, the imposition of sexual perfectionism can lead to sexual dysfunction
as it leads to women having a negative self-image of themselves.
Nothing kills the mood like unrealistic expectations and constant
criticism.
The study asked the respondents questions about desire, arousal, lubrication, orgasm, satisfaction and pain. They also answered questions
about sexual performance standards imposed by themselves on themselves,
by themselves on their partners, by their partners on themselves and by
society on themselves. They were given a follow-up 12 weeks later.
It
was found that partner-prescribed perfectionism was the worst sex move.
It is not only associated with lower sexual esteem and higher sexual
anxiety, but predicted longitudinal decreases in sexual esteem and
increases in sexual anxiety.
As well,
partner-prescribed sexual perfectionism is a psychological factor that
may contribute to sexual self-concept problems in women.
So,
in conclusion, positive reinforcement and encouragement is the best way
to get her to open up sexually. Accusing her of being bad in bed, not
doing something well, comparing her to an ex or another woman sexually
will only cause her to withdraw even more, making her uninterested in
sex with you.
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